Welcome! Meet Michelle
Psychotherapist | Author | Trainer | Speaker
Michelle specializes in helping adults and couples overcome anxiety, depression, and relationship challenges using Intensive Short-Term Dynamic Psychotherapy (ISTDP).
Her book, What I Couldn’t Tell My Therapist, delves into the power of intensive dynamic therapy in unlocking the hidden pathways to profound transformation.
With a private practice in Washington, DC, and Virginia, Michelle also provides training and consultative supervision for health professionals.
What I Couldn't Tell My Therapist is now available!
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What I Couldn't Tell My Therapist is now available! 〰️
What is Intensive Short-Term Dynamic Psychotherapy (ISTDP)?
ISTDP is a unique therapeutic approach that combines active and experiential elements, integrating emotional and cognitive aspects to create an accelerated treatment model.
ISTDP focuses on emotional engagement and the exploration of internal resistances within the therapeutic context. Both the therapist and client form a dynamic team, working together to achieve substantial and lasting results. This method moves away from the prolonged nature of traditional therapies, fostering a more immediate and intensive approach to emotional healing. By focusing directly on unconscious conflicts, ISTDP empowers clients to confront painful emotions with the goal of achieving rapid transformation.
For more information on ISTDP, check out the Resources page.
The Book
What I Couldn't Tell My Therapist shares the unforgettable stories of three patients in intensive therapy. Michelle, a dedicated psychotherapist, struggles with an addiction to people-pleasing and perfectionism while being tethered to opioids by mysterious chronic pain. After her own transformative odyssey, Michelle helps two troubled patients, Walter and Emma. Walter confronts the shadows of crippling depression and an intimate attachment to cannabis, while Emma yearns for a relationship but is hindered by her haunting fear of vulnerability. Within the sacred confines of intensive therapy sessions, their stories intertwine, creating a sanctuary for profound revelation.
Through these stories, the profound truth emerges—that the unspoken holds the power to shape our healing journey. What I Couldn't Tell My Therapist serves as a testament to the power of intensive therapy, inviting us to confront the depths of our unspoken truths and unlock the hidden pathways to profound transformation.
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Michelle’s Services
Michelle offers intensive dynamic psychotherapy training that is designed for mental health professionals, organizations, and universities. The unique aspect of her training is the integration of real therapy session videos, which provides trainees with an opportunity to observe the therapeutic process in action. Michelle also invites a consistent focus on the clinician’s relationship to learning and integrating new clinical material, which fosters a deeper understanding of not only the new material, but themselves. As a result, this method promotes rapid breakthroughs, enhancing the overall effectiveness and efficiency of their professional development in psychotherapy.
Training and Speaking
Elevate your therapeutic practice with Michelle’s individualized and group consultative supervision, designed for mental health and medical professionals seeking to deepen their expertise in Intensive Short-Term Dynamic Psychotherapy (ISTDP). Whether you're looking for personalized mentorship, consultative supervision, or collaborative group learning, Michelle’s consultative supervision offers video tape assessment, clinical skill-building, role playing, and a supportive environment tailored to your professional growth.
Consultative Supervision
Individual and Couples Psychotherapy
Michelle provides transformative therapy for individuals and couples, specializing in Intensive Short-Term Dynamic Psychotherapy (ISTDP). ISTDP is an emotionally-focused, hands-on form of therapy that helps clients engage deeply with their emotions during sessions. It is a treatment designed for more rapid change, unlike traditional long-term therapies. The goal of ISTDP is to bring about rapid improvement by addressing unconscious conflicts that affect behavior. This approach focuses on overcoming internal resistance to emotional challenges, allowing individuals to understand the root causes of their symptoms and achieve real healing and change.
Somatic Breathwork
Michelle M. May, LPC, NCC offers Somatic Breathwork, a body-centered practice that uses intentional breathing techniques to release stored tension, regulate the nervous system, and process unresolved emotions. The body can hold onto stress, trauma, and suppressed emotions, which can manifest as physical discomfort, anxiety, or emotional numbness. Somatic Breathwork helps access deeper emotional states, shift from a fight-or-flight response to a relaxed state, and reconnect with the body and mind. It is commonly used in trauma healing, stress management, and emotional regulation, and can integrate well with psychotherapy.
Featured Upcoming Training
This course provides an in-depth introduction to Intensive Dynamic Psychotherapy (IDP), a treatment model rooted in Intensive Short-Term Dynamic Psychotherapy (ISTDP) but adaptable across various therapeutic modalities, including Internal Family Systems (IFS), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), and more. IDP is based on and maintains the core principles of ISTDP while integrating techniques that enhance its application in different clinical contexts.
At its foundation, IDP is based on the understanding that unconscious feelings generate anxiety, which in turn triggers defenses that sustain psychological symptoms. The therapeutic task involves identifying and addressing these defenses, restructuring, increasing affect tolerance, and helping patients face and process underlying emotions that have long been avoided. By doing so, patients experience structural character change and symptom relief.
Interested in working with Michelle?
Whether you’re looking for psychotherapy, professional supervision, training, or a speaker in Intensive Short-Term Dynamic Psychotherapy (ISTDP), Michelle brings a wealth of expertise and personalized support. Her extensive experience in therapy, consultative supervision, and dynamic speaking allows her to tailor her approach to your specific needs.
Reach out to Michelle today to discover how she can assist with your personal growth, professional development, or organizational training.